So Angry! How can a doctor do this?


Today, I finally got the call I had been waiting for. I was waiting for the doctor to call back to let me know when they were going to schedule the colposcopy. You know the high powered microscope so they can figure out why I’m bleeding. Instead, I get a call saying there is nothing more we can do. All your testing has come back fine. I said what there is nothing more? I hung up I was so angry, and still am. How can a doctor just neglect a patient? I have been having woman issues now for 3 years and I’m getting the boot. WTF! Here I am still bleeding like crazy and with no answer. Yes I’m happy my blood work came back fine. Yes I’m happy my pap and cultures are fine. And yes my ultrasound came back normal. But I’m still bleeding almost 3 months later. Why? I have no clue. I will be on the phone with my MD tomorrow to get seen. Something isn’t right. And let me tell you if it’s something major it will be war. This is not like me but this is not fair and all the stress from being told to monitor and now being turned away is bs. I have good health insurance. I’m so angry, frustrated and even more stressed out now which I know is not good. I will refuse to ever see that doctor again. My OB/GYN is in the doctors top 100. I don’t see how now. I have a huge family history with issues and trust me my health hasn’t been up to par since Zoe was born. I had cysts, and endometriosis and abnormal paps for 2 years. Yes this all came back fine but they haven’t checked up there(sorry for that term). I’m so angry:(

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Comments

  1. Natalie A. says:

    I'm so sorry that you are dealing with all that right now! I hope that you can find another doctor that will care and help figure out the problem!

  2. Xenia says:

    SO annoying! It's YOUR body, so if you know that something is wrong then they should respect that and listen. Make sure your MD hears all of your complaints and gets you in somewhere to be seen. I'm holding out hope that things will work out for the best, maybe you'll find an even better doctor that will be able to help you.

    Big hug!

  3. LadyBug-Kellie says:

    I am so sorry you are not getting the answers you need & deserve. i agree with you that you should see another doctor, get a second opinion, 3rd opinion, whatever it takes to get this resolved. You have to be your own health advocate, make them hear your voice.

  4. Together We Save says:

    You have every right to be angry! Sorry you are having to deal with this!! I hope you find an answer soon.

  5. The Jacobsen Family! says:

    Stick to it mama! I agree with Kellie… 2nd, 3rd, 4th opinion…whatever it takes to get answers! Hang in there! Praying for you! HUGS!

  6. Kelli @ RTSM says:

    I'm am so sorry you are going through all that! I know from experience that it can be really frustrating to deal with an unhelpful and uncaring doctor. I say get another opinion…see another doctor…do whatever you can to figure out what is going on! Good luck!

  7. katy says:

    I just can't understand that doctor! I hope you get a doctor who will listen to you and find out what is the problem.

  8. Michelle @ Flying Giggles says:

    I would be very angry too. Obviously, something is not right and it is up to them to figure it out. Definitely fight them because you cannot simply ignore the warning signs your body is giving you. Good luck…hang in there!

  9. Joshlin says:

    I have a friend who is now going through the exact same thing. She has been bleeding for a long time. Her OBGYN called her last week and told her he no longer wanted to be her doctor. The reason. They just weren't compatible. Can you beleive that!!! She was in the process of finding out if she needed a her woman parts taken out or what. He had been her doctor for years and years. Now all of a sudden he said he can't see or help her anymore. She will be trying to get another doctor, but I told her she needed to see a lawyer too. What if he did know what was wrong with her and is not telling her b/c he doesn't want to deal with procedures!

    I hope you have better luck and find a good doctore who will know what is wrong right away and can fix it all for you. I will pray for both of you!

  10. LT says:

    You should be angry!! I agree that another opinion is in order, it is important that they find out what is going on!!
    Hang in there, we are still sending thoughts and prayers your way!

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